Events however momentous or insignificant, tends to erase themselves from human mind.
The capacity of adaptability of a human being is just unfathomable. With every inch you move away from victory and closer to hopelessness your mind fights it. Standing in the arena, fighting, you know it’s not gonna end all happily but still you wait for a slight twinkle of luck to grace you and change things in your favor abruptly. But then miracles do not happen that often. And when it’s all over and evident and even your mind and heart can’t play a trick you stand all alone in a crowd of thousands not knowing whether to console or blame yourself for the loss. But then out of the blue your wisdom creeps in and says to you sometimes losses are just inevitable. Deep down your heart you know its lunacy and you are just acting coward but then this is what you call it as adaptability and acceptance. As a matter of fact you know life has to go on and you are not going to get a second chance so you just got to live with your loss and you gradually do succumb to the best option available, adaptability and acceptance, killing all the voices that comes from your conscience with the sword of so called wisdom according to you.
I don’t know whether this is the right choice or not especially when there is no other choice left for you but surely I do know the power of this choice. All of a sudden the grief and distress you are in seems to be combatable. You get the power to crush them with by just two simple words-“It’s OK”. Never one realizes the impact and influence of these simple words on human mind until and unless he says it to himself. It just acts so soothing to your heart and mind as if it has cast its own spell. It just makes you stoic enough to deal and live with your loss. And then gradually other things come by and the loss fades away from your mind or even it does pop up sometime in your dreams you just get up have a glass of water, recollect the reminiscences of the past, smile subconsciously and say …..“it’s OK”.
